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I’m finally ready to talk about Atlanta

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ghost ships

“I’ll never know and neither will you of the life you don’t choose. We’ll only know that whatever that sister life was, it was important and beautiful and not ours. It was the ghost ship that didn’t carry us. There’s nothing to do but salute it from the shore.”

—DEAR SUGAR, The Rumpus Advice Column #71: The Ghost Ship That Didn’t Carry Us